10 Steps Program....

10 Steps to a Happy Marriage

1. God Has you here to serve one another. Love acted out is serving.

2. Women need respect and nurturing. Love your wife so she knows you'd lay your life down for her. Continue to date her and admire her. Share a hobby-find something you can do to have fun together.

3. Laugh Often

4.Be Patient. Love crumbles quickly under the weight of unmet expectations.

5. Spend more time trying to fix ourselves that your spouse.

6. Keep short accounts. The Bible says. " Do not let the sun go down while you are angry". Make a habit to forgive ( don't go to bed mad)

7. Determine upfront that divorce is not an option

8. Learn about love languages. Not all people show love or receive it the same way. You want a back run and your spouse want a clean kitchen. The love languages are fairly simple: acts of service, quality time, physical touch, gifts and words of affirmation. Learn them. Love is better received when it's in the language that person speaks.

9. Words of affirmation are a love language for all men.

10. Men are born to be leaders. He cannot lead unless she gives him the confidence to do so. If you love your husband, build him up.

How do we treat our husbands/wives?

Thanks Christal for sharing this awesome post on your blog.